Tough words hurt, particularly with the close members of a family such as siblings, parents, children and in-laws. It is difficult to swallow sharp words. It is not uncommon to see disputes in a family. Some counsellor suggests if possible one side of the party involved “to let it go.” I think this is the only way to avoid further damage between two parties.
Finally, when checking what Scripture says, which has the best advice of all to react to strong criticism. (James 1:19) “My dear brothers and sisters, take note of this: Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry.” Apostle Paul counsels us to (Romans 12:16) “Live in harmony with one another. Do not be proud, but be willing to associate with people of low position. Do not be conceited.”
Also in (Proverbs 15:1-2, 18) “A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger. The tongue of the wise adorns knowledge, but the mouth of the fool gushes folly.” “A hot-tempered person stirs up conflict, but the one who is patient calms a quarrel.”
Considering such wisdom, may God help us hold our tongues, as I mentioned above. More than all, wisdom instructs us to “fear the Lord” because (Proverbs 15:33) “Wisdom’s instruction is to fear the Lord, and humility comes before honor.”