What a coincidence when we discuss Su Dongpo (also known as Su Shi) was one of China’s greatest poets and essayists about how much he missed his brother while in exile. He wrote, “we rejoice and grieve, gather and leave, while the moon waxes and wanes. Since times of old, nothing remains perfect. May our loved ones live long, beholding this beautiful scene together though thousands of miles apart.”
His poem reveals the same themes found in the book of Ecclesiastes. The author, known as the Teacher, observed that there’s “a time to weep and a time to laugh . . . a time to embrace and a time to refrain from embracing” (3:4–5).
By pairing two contrasting activities, the Teacher, like Su Dongpo, seems to suggest that all good things must inevitably come to an end. As Su Dongpo saw the waxing and waning of the moon as another sign that nothing remains perfect, the Teacher also saw in creation God’s providential ordering of the world He’d made. God oversees the course of events, and “He has made everything beautiful in its time.”
Life may be unpredictable and sometimes can be with painful separations, but we can take heart that everything takes place under God’s gaze. We can enjoy life and treasure the moments—the good and the bad—for our loving God is with us.