Someone said humiliation can be a good thing if it leads to humility, but I felt that embarrassing is just as bad as humiliation. I was bad at remembering names. Remembering one occasion some 45 years ago when I visited a friend whom I knew for some time, and I was totally blank I could not recall his name when some tenant opened the door for me. They asked whom I was looking for, I was so embarrassed and I said the tall guy who was a student from U of T. Finally my friend came to the door and I remembered his name a little while later. It was a horrifying experience. Would God cannot excuse this flaw and He would not accept me as His children, not a bit. Because He knows me a lot better than myself and he would humble me and provide me with more grace and better memory to deal with more things later in my life. He makes me humble before Him and gives me more confidence than before and more look up to Him because He knows my weakness and makes me stronger.
He showers the humble with grace. God Himself said, “These are the ones I look on with favor: those who are humble and remorseful in spirit, and who tremble at my word” (Isaiah 66:2). As we humble ourselves before Him, He lifts us up. My weakness and shame can bring me before God for His shaping. When I fall, I have fallen into His hands.