We can play different kinds of sports, have various kinds of hobbies or reading stories of our favourite authors. But if we have a favourite child in a family is no joking matter. It will affect the relationship among the siblings from the childhood stage to the adult stage. Personally, I had a living sample of a relative, who had two daughters. One is smarter and looks better than the other. The two sisters were never in a good relationship since the mother always favoured the smarter daughter. The other was ignored most of the time. The smarter and good looking one later got married to a son of a rich family while the other less good looking one never got married. After the mother passed away. The two sisters were never together as they should be since they have nobody in the family except two of them left behind. What a tragic situation.
In a more extreme case as in the bible. Displaying favouritism can be crippling in a family. In Genesis 37, we read about Jacob who gave his son Joseph an ornate coat—an indication to his other children that Joseph was special (v. 3). Without a hint of subtlety, the coat’s message shouted: “Joseph is my favourite son.” And Joseph was sold to Egypt as a slave. When it comes to our relationships, we may sometimes find it tricky to be objective. But our goal must be to treat everyone without favouritism and to love every person in our life as our Father loves us.